Archive for June, 2008

Call to Prayer

Friday, June 27th, 2008

A friend of the blog, Jimmy Paravane, is down, his wife is having a hard time.

As Kurt Russell said in “Soldier,”
“Soldiers deserve soldiers, Sir”

Father, hold Jimmy and his wife in the safety and calm of your hand. Holy Spirit overwhelm them with your peace. Jesus, send the love of the cross directly to the hurt. Heal and renew, in the name of Christ Jesus, Let it be.

June 30th Update: She’s Home.

Categories : Front Page
Comments (3)

Big man is down

Saturday, June 21st, 2008

Sorry about the lack of posts but I caught a cold this week and haven’t felt like doing much of anything. I could be macho and bang something out but it would be half hearted and weak. So, I guess I’ll go back to the couch to get some rest.  There are big changes in the works, if I can get what’s in my head onto the screen, so stay tuned.

For Freedom
bert

Categories : Front Page
Comments (1)

We’re About to go “Dark”

Friday, June 13th, 2008

There is a need in the community of men that is slightly different than what menonpurpose.com has been doing. My goals up until now have been to: “Use positive language to encourage men to find their place in the “Bigger” story that God has for them.” It has come to my attention over the last couple of weeks that I’ve been a little to… (what’s the word?)… hesitant  when dealing with the real and overwhelming issues that are facing men.  In the next couple of days this site will go “dark.” There will be a home page with an invitation and a  warning that we are going to tackle issues with honest, meaningful, relevant, and often frank language.

Its about to get REAL men.

Comments (0)

Vision Casting: One Prayer

Wednesday, June 11th, 2008

Finally there is something “Christians” do that sounds cool. When I hear the term “Vision Casting” I think of the Native American practice of going on a “Vision Quest.” The result of Vision Casting isn’t that much different but you don’t have to go through all that living in the desert stuff that can be uncomfortable. In the end you are confronted with purpose and a direction to steer it. And, if you’ve never heard Craig Groeschel cast a vision for direction you’ve missed out. Craig is a good teacher, its one of the reasons I wanted to keep going to Lifechurch but when he gets passionate about something it tends to have world-wide ramifications. Take, for example, OnePrayer.com.  If you have ever wondered why we need all those denominations and 25 churches of the same type in every city and how absurd that is and what can be done about “Christian” unity, then go read the mission of One Prayer.

Just to illustrate how far ahead of the curve I was in 1995, I wrote a paper for my “Religion in Contemporary Culture” class, it was called “Denominational Reunification.” I was very impressed with the title and the grade I got on the paper. But it stopped there. Here is what can be, hundreds of churches and thousands of believers world wide worshiping and battling together to serve the rest of creation.

Here’s a link to last weeks “experience.” The illustrations of Jesus’ prayer near the end is Incredibly powerful.

Go to One Prayer.com and join the conversation…

Comments (2)

Question

Saturday, June 7th, 2008

If you were going to host a class in Leadership what curriculum would you use?

Categories : Front Page
Comments (2)

The 4 T’s – Testicles (part 4 of 4)

Wednesday, June 4th, 2008

A wise sage once shared with me the secret to being a stress free man, he said every job requires– The Four T’s.

Every man’s got em, not every man uses em.

I don’t mean the literal appendages, I mean as in nerve, huevos, “to Cowboy Up,” pull the trigger, time to Man up, step off the cliff…

Risk is a part of life, the opposite of taking a risk is not being conservative, it is resignation. To be resigned to a life of uselessness (or “impotence”) Our language for being courageous is built around our most sensitive part. The part you want to protect at all cost. Ironically it is the pain that we try to avoid that has to be risked in order to achieve great strides.

There are two ways that courage manifests itself these days. Not all of us are faced with babies in burning buildings or going toe to toe with a bad guy at a crime scene. But, we do have choices to make about our purpose and battling for those who can’t/shouldn’t have to defend themselves.

Purpose

Are you doing what you love, what you were born to do? Or, have you resigned yourself to the lie that this is as good as it gets you might as well work like a dog and ache for the weekend to get here. Its funny, the resigned life is hard to live but easy to fall in to. And the purposeful life is hard to get into and easier to live in.

There is a parable in Matthew 25 that tells of a ruler who goes on a trip and entrusts some money to 3 of his workers. While he is away, the first invests the money and doubles it. The second does the same, the third hides the money and waits for the master to return. Here’s what the third guy says:

25 So I was afraid and went out and hid your talent in the ground. See, here is what belongs to you.’ 26 “His master replied, ‘You wicked, lazy servant! … 27 Well then, you should have put my money on deposit with the bankers, so that when I returned I would have received it back with interest. 28 ”Take the talent from him and give it to the one who has the ten talents… 30 And throw that worthless servant outside, into the darkness 

“I was afraid” he says, that’s code for, “I didn’t have the stones to take a risk” 

Battles

I was in a fast food joint not long ago when I overheard an old man berating the teenage girl behind the counter. He was an old dude but he was using his position as a customer to talk down to the girl that didn’t know about their “senior” menu. He kept on shouting at her about being overcharged for his drink. I told my wife to hand me a dollar and I went to the counter to pay the overcharge. He wouldn’t let me and turned his argument to me. Excellent. This is what I wanted to prove to her. She didn’t deserve this treatment and a stranger thought enough of her to deflect the abuse. I was then able to tell the man that he was acting inappropriately and he was shamed into not talking to the girl anymore. 

There are battles to be fought all around us. There could be tendency to make mountains out of mole hills in an effort to look like you’re fighting for truth and justice but I always weigh the situation from two sides. Justice and Grace. Some people have a keen sense of justice while others live with an acute sense of grace. If someone is abusing both at the same time, its time to step in.

I am very good at fighting for people who I don’t think can fight for themselves, I sometimes step over the line but I don’t see that as being too bad. I do however have a huge problem pulling the trigger on taking a risk. I know I’m not doing what I was put here to do and if I’d just step off the cliff I’d be rewarded but, I wait and take baby steps and hope one day God will push me off the cliff so I don’t have to make the decision. God give me strength to trust you.

If you don’t think this is a serious issue in the life of a man, try this on for size: Rev 21:8   

But the cowardly, the unbelieving, the vile, the murderers, the sexually immoral, those who practice magic arts, the idolaters and all liars—they will be consigned to the fiery lake of burning sulfur. This is the second death.

Check out who leads this list of people heading to “the second death.”

So, I guess my advice to myself is to, “grow a pair.”

Categories : Life and Story, Purpose
Comments (2)

The 4 T’s – Talent (Part 3 of 4)

Monday, June 2nd, 2008

A wise sage once shared with me the secret to being a stress free man, he said every job requires– The Four T’s.

The third T: Talent

When asked the secret to his success as a one of the best pitchers to ever play the game of baseball, Nolan Ryan didn’t give credit to genetics, or “clean livin.” He simply said “technique.” He never forgot the basics and he studied how he could consistently repeat a desired outcome. Shaqule O’neal may not be the best free-throw shooter in the NBA but I bet he out performs me based on the fact that he shoots more free-throws than I do. And, if you want to be like the pros and drive a nail in one swing of the hammer, you have to pound a lot of nails.

I have a good friend has taught me that anyone can do anything they just haven’t learned how yet. Will gets an idea that he’d like to do something, like – say a strip wood canoe. I’d known him, at this point for 8 years and I didn’t even know if the kid had ever been on the water. But he had a policy, he would read 3 books on the subject, buy the materials and start working. The process wouldn’t be perfect but he kept working at it until he had his canoe and a new set of skills to take to the next job.

2 Timothy 2:15
Study to show thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.

Categories : Life and Story
Comments (1)