Archive for July, 2008

Another Chapter Has Begun

Monday, July 21st, 2008

We found out Friday before last but Vicki’s parents just got back into town this past Friday, and we were just able to go to the Dr. today to confirm so I can now tell you guys that we are going to have our first child.   We’ve been given a ton of advice and lots of suggestions but, as you all know, the most important thing right now is to pick potential names. We’re due in March so there’ll be plenty of time for all the other child rearing stuff later.

Any advice from you old pros? Where did your pop get it right?

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Metaphors

Friday, July 18th, 2008

Reprinted from the Ransomed Heart Daily email. If you aren’t on this mailing list I would highly encourage it.  To subscribe to this daily email, create a profile at www.ransomedheart.com/myprofile

Metaphors
07/19/2008

The Bible uses a number of metaphors to describe our relationship to God at various stages. If you’ll notice, they ascend in a stunning way:

Potter and clay. At this level we are merely aware that our lives are shaped—even broken—by a powerful hand. There isn’t much communication, just the sovereignty of God at work.

Shepherd and sheep. At this stage we feel provided for, watched over, cared about. But beyond that, a sheep has little by way of true intimacy with the Shepherd. They are altogether different creatures.

Master and servant. Many, many believers are stuck in this stage, where they are committed to obey, but the relationship is mostly about receiving orders and instructions and carrying them out.

Father and child. This is certainly more intimate than being a servant; children get the run of the house, they get to climb on Daddy’s lap. These fortunate souls understand God’s fatherly love and care for them. They feel “at home” with God.

Friends. This stage actually opens up a deeper level of intimacy as we walk together with God, companions in a shared mission. We know what’s on his heart; he knows what’s on ours. There is a maturity and intimacy to the relationship.

Bridegroom and bride (lovers). Here, the words of the Song of Songs could also describe our spiritual intimacy, our union and oneness with God. Madame Guyon wrote, “I love God far more than the most affectionate lover among men loves his earthly attachment.”

Where would you put your relationship with God? Why did you choose that “level”? Has it always been that way?

(The Journey of Desire Journal & Guidebook , p150)

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Father’s and Sons

Wednesday, July 16th, 2008

Fathering Adventures
Now this looks like an idea I could get behind… Fathering Adventures

Darren Lewis and some mates started an Adventure experience for Fathers and sons (and soon for daughters). I met Darren at the Wild at Heart Boot Camp in Australia. In our conversations I have come to know that he has a strong heart for God and for his sons so this was a natural fit for him.

Our Mission… To provide an enjoyable, exciting, adventure-filled environment for a father to succeed, be inspired, equipped, and empowered, to really connect, or perhaps reconnect with their child. A life-giving, life-changing experience that promises to provide moments that will create powerful memories to last a lifetime, and opportunities to fill a photo album.

While there’s no arguing that Australasia is one of the most beautiful places on the planet. We have some awe inspiring nature around here as well. This would be an excellent partnership endevour for a couple of local men’s groups. Picture it, repelling at Red Rock Canyon, camping and rafting down the Arkansas river, fishing at Eufalla. All while inviting and initiating sons into masculinity. Sounds like a book I might have read…

I don’t have any kids yet so I just thought I’d plant the seed.

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Wednesday Fast (updated 7/16/08)

Tuesday, July 15th, 2008

Wednesday Thursday Fast

Update: I completely goofed this morning, I made coffee ate a doughnut, went to work and remembered I was supposed to be fasting today. Postponing until tomorrow. But I did get some prayertime in this morning. –bert

The OnePrayer participants began fasting for specific needs one day a week during the series. I had great answer to prayer so that has encouraged me to keep it up. There have been several people that have experienced change because of the fasting so I want to encourage that change as well. So, I’ll be fasting tomorrow. Specifically for Health and Healing. I’ll tell you about the Health part this weekend but there are several readers that have a need for healing.

These are the battles going on for M.O.P. readers:

  • There is great friend with a son who has Duchenne Muscular Dystrophy (DMD) and has begun steroid treatment. I’ll be for Father, Mother, Son, and family.
  • Jimmy Paravane, his wife has experienced some great progress but I want to pray for her full recovery.
  • and for a reader who has been busted, and is in the rebuilding phase, his wife has left him, he’s been laid off at work and is back living at home. I’ve spoken with him at length and he is taking responsibility for everything he’s done, sought council from several men, and is wanting to rebuild his life. But then everything has crumbled around him. Looking back I can see that this is a lonely, frustrating place to be but it is also a great point from which to begin again. We are praying that his wife return and they become one again.

You guys are important to me and to our Father, I pray for you often. Phil 1:3.  What is there in your life that is a serious enough concern that you show God you would sacrifice for his intervention?

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What’s In Your CD player (iPod, mp3 player)

Thursday, July 10th, 2008

OK, we need a little break from the serious (OK, I need a break). So, I thought we’d get to know each other with a simple, non-threatening, soul revealing, ice breaker.

So, here’s the question again, what do you listen to? Myself, I gave up listening to the radio a couple of years ago when it was stolen out of my truck. I’ve had the worst luck with junky stereos- that’s another story.

Here’s what I’ve got on my iPod,

No Music:

  • I consider it Brain Candy and I’d rather be learning something.

Audio Books:

Podcasts (“Radio” or “TV” shows distributed over the Internet):

  • BoagWorld.com: web design podcast: British, funny, informative, in that order! This is the show that got me hooked on Internet based AV content. I consider Paul to be a distant British mentor that doesn’t know me.
  • Buzz Out Loud: Tech News with common sense.
  • Geeks and God Podcast: “A podcast that educates and encourages technology in christian ministries.”
  • John Eldredge and Ransomed Heart (Audio and Video): The Wild at Heart guys, and Epic and Waking the Dead, and The Way of the Wild Heart, and Walking with God…
  • Lifechurch.tv Message Series (Audio and Video): God changed my life through this ministry I give back through them.
  • MacBreak Weekly: Mac News, Tips, and Software picks. (Its a little “This Week in Baseball” but the gems you collect are worth the slow bits.
  • Meet the GIMP: Graphics Image Manipulation Program Tips and tutorials. For those of us who can’t afford Photoshop, the GiMP is an able and FREE alternative.
  • Mosaic: Messages from Erwin McManus’ ministry in LA. Very down to earth, very refreshing.
  • (Guilty Pleasure) The Rissington Podcast: An audio show about Web Design and Cheese. British, very funny, and swears a lot!! The only podcast I have that has an “Explicit” tag.
  • System: Patrick Norton shows you how to build all kinds of Geek stuff. Remote Control Robots, firewalls on an old linux PC, Bio-fuels, etc.
  • Tekzilla: Patrick Norton and Veronica Belmont give product reviews, help &, tech tips on everything from iPods to camcorders, HD to the Internet, plus do it yourself projects.
  • TWIP – This Week in Photography: Camera technique, technology, and news
  • This WEEK in TECH (audio): Discussion of the latest trends in high tech.

My Brain is Hungry, this is how I inform IT. How do you feed your brain??

When you comment you can only use 2 links, put the address you want in the comment and I’ll turn it into a link.

Other resources:

PodCasting in Plain English from CommonCraft
The difference between Broadcast and Podcast
I’d be surprised if you couldn’t get a DIY MBA (or GED at least) at this site The Education Podcast Network
(Aside: Free Classes from MIT MIT Open Courseware!!)

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Independence Day

Friday, July 4th, 2008

First of all:

Welcome Home All Who Have Served Our Country, You Are the Warriors We All Hope to Emulate in Our Battles!

The theme of this day (July 4th, US independence day) fits the message of this site perfectly. There is an enemy, he prowls the earth seeking whom he may devour. That ‘may’ there is a good choice of words. He doesn’t devour just anyone, he destroys those willing to be destroyed. Not whom he ‘can’ devour but those who he ‘may’ devour.

Before the enemy came to be there is a Father/Creator that spoke us into existence. To each he gave a personality, desires, and  a purpose. And, because he knew what he was doing the three of those things mesh together to form a fierce being. A man (in our case) who is focused, brave, valiant, and effective. That was the plan anyhow.

The way things have turned out we have blindly stumbled through life without anyone to point us in the direction of that loving creator Father. We were told that the purpose of life is to be happy, or prosperous, or at the very least “to have it better than our parents had it.” Hmm, lofty. Our parents, church leaders, teachers etc. didn’t know the purpose of life and if they did then they didn’t know how to point us to it. We went to high school and cruised through, some of us went to college and wasted even more time. Then we got out and had to pay rent so we took the job that paid the bills and had to learn how to survive the politics to advance and get paid more. At some point we concluded that having a family, a house, and a car was the best we could do and started filling the holes with toys. A big TV, turned into a Theater Room, Going to a football game turned into tailgating with an RV and a margarita machine, A weekend trip to the lake turned into a boat, a ski-doo, and a lake house. Going to church turned into commitee meetings, building projects, fund raisers, choir practice, gossip,  and “where are we going to eat after the service?” All the while we watch the news and feel helpless to change the world. I wonder why we feel helpless when WE’RE NOT DOING ANYTHING TO CHANGE IT.

Going forward, here at Men On Purpose, I’m going to be looking at who we are, why we were put here, and the distractions that keep us resigned to a life of futility. I want to talk frankly about these issues, and invite you to do the same. Use words like ‘angry,’ ‘drunk,’ ‘pot,’ ‘depressed,’ ‘porn,’ ‘masturbate,’ ‘afair,’ ‘guilt,’ and ‘divorce.’ These topics touch our lives and skew our perspective, if the church hides in the closet and ignores them then no one gets helped. You can’t drive forward if your wheels are spinning in the mud.

Philippians 3: 13 Friends, don’t get me wrong: By no means do I count myself an expert in all of this, but I’ve got my eye on the goal, where God is beckoning us onward—to Jesus. 14 I’m off and running, and I’m not turning back. 15 So let’s keep focused on that goal, those of us who want everything God has for us. If any of you have something else in mind, something less than total commitment, God will clear your blurred vision—you’ll see it yet! 16 Now that we’re on the right track, let’s stay on it. 17 Stick with me, friends. Keep track of those you see running this same course, headed for this same goal. 18 There are many out there taking other paths, choosing other goals, and trying to get you to go along with them. I’ve warned you of them many times; sadly, I’m having to do it again. All they want is easy street. They hate Christ’s Cross. 19 But easy street is a dead-end street. Those who live there make their bellies their gods; belches are their praise; all they can think of is their appetites. 20 But there’s far more to life for us. We’re citizens of high heaven! –The Message

For Freedom
bert

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