Love146 – What Stirs You? (part 3)

Thursday, December 11th, 2008

It’s been awhile since my last post . . . holidays, sickness, doctors . . . let’s just say it’s been busy around our casa the last few weeks.

When I first ran across Love146.org, I was struck at how this could even happen in our world today Read More→

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Essential to the Soul

Saturday, November 22nd, 2008

As a former writing student, the conversations in my head are usually me trying to distill complicated thoughts into smaller more easily communicated chunks. I like to have my “elevator pitches” ready. When I don’t have a plan as to what I want to say I tend to run off at the mouth Read More→

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Guy’s Guide to Marrying Well

Thursday, November 13th, 2008

There is a *free* guide for men to marry well.  I’m not sure how many single guys are readers of MoP, but I am sure you will be happy to pass on this information that can help prepare men for strong, health marriages.

Most men hope to marry some day, but there’s no guarantee they will.  Increasingly, young men are — as one writer put it — “stumbling on to the altar as if by accident.”  … When they do find advice about relationships, it’s often spectacularly bad.

This guide was developed to turn around the curse of failed manhood.  In their infinite wisdom, the authors have opted to GIVE this information away.  So get over to Guy’s Guide to Marrying Well and sign up to break the curse of apathy among men and marriage.

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People Called Christians – What Stirs You? Part B

Saturday, November 8th, 2008

I’m gonna jump on the “What Stirs You” bandwagon with a reaction of my own. As Editor-in-Chief I give myself permission! I’m composing this in my head with lots of impolite expletives so feel free to add your own where you think I may have edited ** them out.

Here’s what’s stirring me.

I pissed off at ** “Christians.” (of which I reluctantly include myself) I’m tired of not giving store employees any grace because I think there Customer Service policy should be different. I’m tired of reacting defensivly. I’m tired of Christians not acting like Christ. Don’t you remember how your mothers and Sunday School teachers taught you to behave? How they said to Treat others as we’d treat ourselves? And how we should Love God more than anything and love others better more than we love ourselves. <u>SHARE</u> for freakin Pete’s sake (expletive politely edited). I’m angry that I think so highly of myself that I need to correct everyone else.

I’m sick of non-Christians feeling like they have to preach to me by putting bumperstickers on their cars that read “I’m for separation of Church and Hate” and “Close your Bible and open your mind.” I see these and want to grab them by the collar and beg for mercy an forgiveness for that ** idiot that somewhere back in their lives acted like a ** meany and gave them the impression that the Christian faith was full of ** puritanical, bigots, and rednecks.

I’m tired of the people that taught me how to live not following their own teachings, and acting like ** pre-teens (with apologies to pre-teens).

I’m tired of preachers having afairs and stealing money from the church, and I’m tired of people that go to church on Sunday and then going out to eat not even leaving 15%– Its the MINIMUM, if you don’t have it then go to McDonalds. (Double the tax and add a dollar) By the way, either order straight off the menu or don’t act like a brat if the food doesn’t come out exactly like you <u>thought</u> you ordered it. The resturant sets its prices based on what’s on the menu and how long it takes to make it. Look, there are more single moms and people just above the poverty line waiting tables than in any other profession, if you want to show Jesus to someone then look them IN THE EYE, SMILE, and LEAVE A ** TIP. I’m just sayin’

I’m sick of people saying they have faith and then loosing all hope because the economy is “bad” or act like a brat when the wrong guy got elected, or they can’t find a job.

Christianity has survived the persecution of the Roman Empire, the brutally misguided Crusades and even the 60s. Our God created the universe, he is creative enough to give you profitable ideas for making money in a down market if you don’t mind getting off your arse and quit making excuses. He’s faithful enough to look after you when the stock market crashes. He loves you enough to give some away to others that are hurting worse than you. And He’ll give you enough grace to give someone you don’t agree with the benefit of a doubt (like the guy that did get elected, its not like the Republicans got a lot done in the last 8 years).

So come off it and start thinking before you react. Bert, be slower to get frustrated at someone who is trying to get out of the same trap you yourself fall into. For the sake of the name Jesus, start acting like followers of Christ.

Father, thank you for forgiving me, send your Holy Spirit to smack me in the head before I discredit Your Holy Name.

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Election Day – What Stirs You? (part 2)

Tuesday, November 4th, 2008

With today being the election day I thought it a good time to post something political in nature.  Check out this speech by Laurence White entitled “Soul of America”

Laurence White has been the senior pastor at Our Savior Lutheran Church in Houston, Texas, since 1981. He is the co-founder and chairman of the Greater Houston Area Pastor’s Roundtable, a pro-life, pro-family organization that seeks to increase Christian participation in the political arena.

What stirs you?  tell us in the comments. . .

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Crap called Gospel – What Stirs You? (part 1)

Sunday, November 2nd, 2008

This is the first of a number of posts that asks, “What stirs you?”  I will post about issues that stir me and/or those close to me.

“Why?” you may ask.  I am sure that when we find the things that stir us we begin to come Fully Alive and begin to find out who God made us to be.

A Bunch of Crap Called Gospel

The prosperity gospel is an issue that stirs me.  Watch the video below…

… having a form of godliness but denying its power . . .
2 Timothy 3:5

What stirs you?  Tell us in the comments . . .

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Why Small Groups: One Heart

Monday, October 20th, 2008

Of course, small groups have become a part of the programming most churches offer their people. For the most part, they are disappointing and short-lived – by the very admission of those who try them. There are two reasons. One, you can’t just throw a random group of people together for a twelve week study of some kind, and expect them to become intimate allies. The sort of devotion we want and need takes place within a shared life. Over the years our fellowship goes camping together. We play together; help one another move; paint a room; find work. We throw great parties. We fight for each other, live in the Four Streams. This is how it was meant to be.

I love this description of the early church: “All the believers were one in heart” (Acts 4:32 ). There is a camaraderie being expressed there, a bond, an espri de corps. It means they all love the same thing, they all want the same thing, and they are bonded together to find it come hell or high water. And hell or high water will come, friends, and this will be the test of whether or not your band will make it: If you are one in heart. Judas betrayed the brothers because his heart was never really with them, just as Cipher betrays the company on the Nebuchadnezzar and as Boromir betrays the fellowship of the Ring. Good Lord – churches split over the size of the parking lot or the color of the carpet. Most churches are not “one in heart.”

God is calling together little communities of the heart, to fight for one another and for the hearts of those who have not yet been set free. That commeraderie, that intimacy, that incredible impact by a few stouthearted souls – that is available. It is the Christian life as Jesus gave it to us. It is completely normal.

(Waking The Dead ,193, 203; John Eldredge)

Small groups of Men doing life together, blending their families not from tradgedy as many are blended these days but for Comradery, Support, and Community. Start with 2 or 3 and advertise. Don’t feel as though you have to work through a book or get a degree in “Christian Leadership.” Just talk about life with a focus toward growth in Christ and God will show up.

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Church Think

Wednesday, October 8th, 2008

When I first moved to Colorado Springs one of the volunteer youth leaders introduced me to Enter the Worship Circle, an album of post-modern acoustic worship music – I loved it!  A few weeks after that I had lunch with a friend who had just moved to Denver and he wanted to introduce me to some musician friends of his that were set up close to my office.  Turns out his friends were Ben and Robin Pasley of 100 Portraits, the people heading up Enter the Worship Circle.

While I wasn’t in the “Springs” long enough to really get to know Ben and Robin in person, I have gotten to know them through the years through their music, writings, videos and most recently through ChurchThink.

ChurchThink is Ben’s blog where he engages ideas about the people of God though sharing his personal studies/revelations in articles and then a discussion based podcast.

Here are a few excerpts from one of his articles/podcasts

Try and win people to Christ through the dissemination of correct
thinking and what do you get? A bunch of people fighting and killing
each other over what is really right in the name of the God.

Try to win people to Christ through fancy events and amazement and
what will you get? A group of folks so obsessed with public events and
the vibration of experience that relationships are blindly burned and
left on the highway to the next “revival.”

Try to win people to Christ through a message of justice and social
reform and what do you get? Folks who see better and know better than
everyone else, who constantly apologize for God and his people, and
divide the world into “for us” and “against us” on the fields of their
cause.

BUT…

And another:

If you go and tell somebody that the end game of your Christian walk is to believe the right thing and to go to a building – then I’d have to say there’s less than something perfectly romantic and attractive about that.

And Another:

… asking the same old tired questions, you know, “where do you go to church?”  Good Lord, are you kidding me?  Are you still doing that?  Is that the end game for you – is going to this place where people are seated in a building while some body is teaching?

There are so many tasks we men put on our “to do” lists, but there is one that should trump that list:  To be knowing God, to chase after Him with more abandon than we chase after carreer, stuff, fun, or even the girl.

This blog/Podcast (blog-cast?) is a tool that should be added to your arsenal as you seek to grow in relationship with God and in the family of God.

I encourage you to be challenged at www.churchthink.com.

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Too Many Voices

Monday, October 6th, 2008

A few years ago I was on a real search for my identity as a Christ follower. “What job am I supposed to have?” “Who should I date?” “Should I get married” all the important life questions. I found myself searching for answers through the Sunday morning sermon, the preachers on the radio, a bible study workbook, friends, family, and any other influence I could find. I was believing that God would use one or all of these resources to direct me. What I found was confusion on a mass scale. I was conflicted on all the aforementioned issues.

The answer came in the for of a statement and a couple of questions. I turned to my brother, Jesse, who is a pastor. Told him of my turmoil and all my questions. He promptly changed the subject, (the jerk) he didn’t give any of my problems any thought, he just asked, “Have you been reading your bible lately?

“No, the bible’s not going to tell me what job I should be looking for.”

“How’s your prayer life been?

“Horrible, I don’t know what to pray for so I don’t”

Then I caught on. He then told me that there were too many voices in my head. While they were all good sources there were too many. I calmed down. So, turn off the all the different voices and start building your system of support led by One Voice.

I think everyone is at different stages in their growth and walk, and its hard to know whose ahead of you and who’s behind. It takes time and careful study to find a man that has your interests at heart and who can speak into your life.

There are a couple of relationships we need to have:

An unconditional Master. That is the person of Jesus Christ. His leading comes from: 1. seeking Him in the Bible. (If you haven’t read Jesus’ story in the Bible before I recommend the gospel of John. ) 2. Humbling yourself to pray 3. and finding a good pastor (Acts 2:42). God knows its hard for us to submit to an authority over us but don’t think of God standing over us making us eat our vegetables. Think football coach, admired professor, someone who knows the path and took the time to show you the way.

And, you need a small company of men. Earthly brothers that can provide a network of support, encouragement, and someone to help move furniture. You think I’m kidding. A small community of committed men can do anything God leads them to accomplish. Most resources say groups of 6-8 are best for genuineness. You probably won’t find a good one in the yellow pages but if you have a church with a small group program there is bound to be a couple groups of men meeting. How to find a good group?

Only 1 rule: Rule number 1. What is said at group, stays at group. Not even your wife or other buddies get to know what the other men are going through. You’ll know a good group if guys are able to speak freely, honestly, real, and without fear of somebody jumping on their case. If you feel you can trust the guys then you take the chance to get stuff off your chest. There is a real leap of faith to communicating with a group. You have to trust that these guys will keep your secrets and die with them, but if one happens not to then it won’t end your world. God will take care of your heart. But, I admit it is liking stepping off a cliff. My advice for your first outing is to find a guide and go repelling. Then you’ll know what its like to trust your support system. I won’t go into resolving whatever conflict is bound to pop up. Controversy is a good thing, it means you actually talking.

If you can’t find a group then ask a couple of guys to meet at a coffee house. Maybe the first time is with a respected elder or the pastor who gives you some jumping off points for your meetings. Meet once a week Talk about your jobs, families, what you wanted to be when you grew up. My biggest recommendation is to get the “Band of Brothers” DVDs from Ransomed Heart Ministries. Or, the Warrior sermon series. It won’t take long before you won’t need topics to get a good discussion going.

Tell us about your men’s group or, use this space to commit to starting one, no matter what!!

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xxxchurch.com has moved

Wednesday, September 24th, 2008

Not the site but they have moved to Las Vegas and they’ve started a new video podcast.

We here at MenOnPurpose love the folk at xxxchurch.com and the amazing work they do in so many different areas of the “adult” world and how we can respond with the hands of Christ.If you aren’t familiar with x3church.com then please check them out.  If you are familiar with them, share your experiences with MenOnPurpose.
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